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Im 21. From New Zealand. Living with fibromyalgia. Sexual and not so Single. Tattooed and pierced. NSFW. I pretty much just post anything that i can relate to or that interests me, which apparently includes a lot of hot naked bitches :) . I love my music, my family and my friends. feel free to ask me anything :) I always follow back and will promo if asked. Im always here to give advice or just listen to anyone, no judging :)

cruelvalentine:

americachavez:

William H. Foster III, comic book historian, on representation in comic books. From PBS’s Superheroes: A Never-Ending Battle.

Because a post crossed my dash recently asking why we need to push for more representation in comic books and media in general. 50 years later, this man still tears up because in one panel, Peter Parker spoke to an unnamed black kid. That’s why we need representation.

Weepy.

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the-goddamazon:

justtopasstimesometimes:


Miracle Watts

I really want to know what her workout and meal plan look like because jesus.

the-goddamazon:

justtopasstimesometimes:

Miracle Watts

I really want to know what her workout and meal plan look like because jesus.

— 30 minutes ago with 588 notes

nothatsstupid:

It really fucking sucks to follow men who are pro-feminist and watch them get awesome, engaging questions about their opinions on this that and the other regarding feminism, (meanwhile, a couple of days ago I was asked if I would participate in a wet t-shirt contest) simply because they’re a dude and people  care about their opinion on feminism (and anything really, but especially that, ironically) more than women’s. Women have been saying the same shit on the internet, in speeches, in books, and with much more eloquence and a couple more relevant college degrees for decades.

We are at the mercy of whatever these men decide to spew out about us thinking they’re trying to help, because their audience is twice as large and their opinion is the only one taken seriously by our oppressor group… because, and it is important not to forget, that they are part of that oppressor group. They are invited to news stations, featured on other websites, readily given huge platforms that we would have had to dumb down our material, curtsey and kiss the asses of dozens of people to even get a chance at having.

When they get criticism from men for what they say, they are chided for breaking the ~brocode~ at worst, given the respect of a human being always, and their life is almost never threatened.

When I speak my mind, I am inundated with threats, slurs and disgusting hate speech. I’ve taken to tracking the people who come to my page because at least I know who these nasty people are, and I can feel a little safer for that. 

Even in this space, where everyone is supposedly checking themselves, and aware of patterns of social hierarchy, they are dripping with privilege every time they speak. So next time you go flocking to worship a man who stumbles through regurgitating what little bit of feminist ideology he has read on our blogs, in our books, in our speeches, please keep this in mind. 

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les-mesaventures:

meerca:

true bravery is reblogging a noteless textpost

Indeed.

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shanwafair:

#Feminism #Patriarchy #YesAllWomen #WeKnowBetter #Evolution

shanwafair:

#Feminism #Patriarchy #YesAllWomen #WeKnowBetter #Evolution

— 2 hours ago with 18 notes

potsandpanssexual:

Don’t ever look at the blog womenagainstfeminism unless you are already filled with rage and want to be even more filled with rage because its seriously disgusting

so, as keeping with my angry feminist mentality, I am going to do some commentary.

We’re gonna start with some selected posts

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first of all what? exactly?? The issue with blurred lines is not the fact that they are topless, it’s that the girls in that video are oversexualized and treated like objects or props instead of human beings. The issue is that topless women are “ok” and “acceptable” but only if men can enjoy it. A lady walking outside in 95 degree heat without her shirt on would be publicly shamed and called indecent, but a woman topless in a video made for the enjoyment of a male-dominated audience is totally fine. That is the issue, the double standard.

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Where exactly did this information come from?? Because I’m pretty damn sure that feminists care a whole lot about the four things mentioned. The thing about Blurred Lines is that it is directly in the eye of the public media and mainstream culture, so the possibility for influencing and showing exactly what is wrong with the video to a larger amount of people is a lot greater. If you go up to a random person on the street and ask “have you heard about women being stoned to death?” they will most likely reply “no” or “didn’t that happen in the middle ages or something” or the likes. However, if you go up to a random person and ask “have you seen the video for Blurred Lines?” the person would be more likely to say yes. It is a lot easier to educate and inform people if they are already familiar with the topic in question. Feminists care a lot about women being trafficked for sex slavery and living in poverty and being stoned to death and all the other horrible awful things that happen to women.

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This image in particular is just plain wrong. It is perpetuating a false idea of feminism, the idea that feminism is about putting women over men. Feminism is about equality, for both sexes, and about tearing down the ideals and societal expectations put in place by a male-dominated culture. Feminists aren’t against men in general, we’re against misogynists and bigots—regardless of gender. And you’re not “playing the victim” if yoU ACTUALLY ARE A VICTIM. A victim of sexisim, mysogyny, misandry, rape, violence, abuse, anything.

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And here it is. The post that made me stop searching for things to comment upon. The arch de triomphe of piss-poor assumptions. The original poster was coMMENTING ON HOW PEOPLE SHOULD STOP JUDGING BECAUSE OF EXTREMISTS AND THIS BLOG JUST DID EXACTLY WHAT OP WAS TALKING ABOUT.

Feminists, as a majority, do not “judge all men by a handful of rapists”. Are there going to be some radicals out there who think all men are pigs and devils and horn-dogs all the time? Sure, but that is not the attitude of the movement as a whole, and they are going to be few and far between. Think of them as the Westboro Baptist Church of feminism. Yes, they exist, but only in small quantities and even the group as a whole thinks what they’re doing is wrong.

As you can see, the posts on this blog are golden. And by golden, of course, I mean terrible. Absolute shit fueled by misconceptions and internalized societal misogyny. And let me tell you, the pages on the blog are not much better, but because I respect your right to a dashboard not filled with the ramblings of an enraged college student, I will put my commentary on those under the cut. 

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i-effed-it-all-up:

she’s beauty and she’s grace, she plays 8 different people who have the same face

(via theuniverseresidesinyou)

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whiitiestwhiitegiirl:

My niece is just the cutest thing ever :) (at Rotorua)

whiitiestwhiitegiirl:

My niece is just the cutest thing ever :) (at Rotorua)

— 5 hours ago with 3 notes

Crazy pics of the crowd at Rapture :) Best feeling is being part of of 60,000 strong crowd, all dancing and bouncing to the same song

— 5 hours ago
#eminem  #rapture 2014  #new zealand  #auckland  #360  #david dallas  #action bronson  #my life  #me 
thewriterchick:

gaywrites:

We went to the party, and, as I figured, some of the guests laughed and made comments. One said to me, “Do you think this is funny? There are kids here. You want them to see this?” Another said, “You want him to be gay?”  

And I stayed calm. And I explained to them the best I could that there is no correlation between kids cross-dressing and being gay. And if he is gay, it’s not because of anything I did. It’s because he’s gay. And maybe it’s a stage. And maybe it’s not. But either way, I don’t want him to ever feel like he wasn’t able to express himself because his parents didn’t support him. And some understood. And some, trapped by religion or ignorance, gave us the stank face. 

Plenty of people are supportive. They’ll see my kids — Sydney with her long dirty blonde hair, and Asher with his short dark hair, and say, “I love your daughter’s pixie cut.” When I tell them he’s my son, they smile and say, “I love it.” They also apologize for confusing his gender, but I tell them, “Don’t apologize. He’s in a purple dress with sparkly shoes. How would you know?” I know there are parents who get worked up when you confuse their kids’ gender, but I’m not one of them.

I get home before my wife most nights, so I was taking the kids out to walk our dog. They were dressing up in different outfits, my daughter treating Asher like her doll, as she tried various dresses, shoes, and headbands on him. And then Sydney told me she wanted me to wear a dress, too — “Oh my god, it will be so funny.”

I said, “No,” but she kept begging. I said, “People will laugh at me.” She said, “If they do, I’ll tell them to go away.” And I couldn’t argue with that, as I squeezed myself into Carrie’s most flexible dress. We walked the dog on our block, and the pleasure my kids took in seeing their dad go out of his comfort zone trumped the humiliation I felt.

Carrie pulled up to the house, and I saw her slacked jaw from the end of the street. She laughed. She took a picture. And she told me I better not rip her dress. And then we all went for a pizza.


(My Son Wears Dresses And That’s OK With Me | Seth Menachem for xoJane)


Can I just say the fact that the little girl’s first reaction was “I’ll tell them to go away” made me tear up?That’s a kid, at such a young age, willing to defend people. That’s a kid who, if her brother wears a dress to school and gets picked on, will run to his side in a minute, regardless of what her friends will say. Oh god the feelings. I can’t handle it.

thewriterchick:

gaywrites:

We went to the party, and, as I figured, some of the guests laughed and made comments. One said to me, “Do you think this is funny? There are kids here. You want them to see this?” Another said, “You want him to be gay?”  
And I stayed calm. And I explained to them the best I could that there is no correlation between kids cross-dressing and being gay. And if he is gay, it’s not because of anything I did. It’s because he’s gay. And maybe it’s a stage. And maybe it’s not. But either way, I don’t want him to ever feel like he wasn’t able to express himself because his parents didn’t support him. And some understood. And some, trapped by religion or ignorance, gave us the stank face. 
Plenty of people are supportive. They’ll see my kids — Sydney with her long dirty blonde hair, and Asher with his short dark hair, and say, “I love your daughter’s pixie cut.” When I tell them he’s my son, they smile and say, “I love it.” They also apologize for confusing his gender, but I tell them, “Don’t apologize. He’s in a purple dress with sparkly shoes. How would you know?” I know there are parents who get worked up when you confuse their kids’ gender, but I’m not one of them.
I get home before my wife most nights, so I was taking the kids out to walk our dog. They were dressing up in different outfits, my daughter treating Asher like her doll, as she tried various dresses, shoes, and headbands on him. And then Sydney told me she wanted me to wear a dress, too — “Oh my god, it will be so funny.”
I said, “No,” but she kept begging. I said, “People will laugh at me.” She said, “If they do, I’ll tell them to go away.” And I couldn’t argue with that, as I squeezed myself into Carrie’s most flexible dress. We walked the dog on our block, and the pleasure my kids took in seeing their dad go out of his comfort zone trumped the humiliation I felt.
Carrie pulled up to the house, and I saw her slacked jaw from the end of the street. She laughed. She took a picture. And she told me I better not rip her dress. And then we all went for a pizza.

Can I just say the fact that the little girl’s first reaction was “I’ll tell them to go away” made me tear up?

That’s a kid, at such a young age, willing to defend people. That’s a kid who, if her brother wears a dress to school and gets picked on, will run to his side in a minute, regardless of what her friends will say.

Oh god the feelings. I can’t handle it.

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